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Old 18th October 2016
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Hello to all my new friends!!
Wanting some advice No actually, needed it, desperately, from this community hopefully I will get good advice.

Anyway my story: arranged marriage with a very cute wife from family friends recomdatation. She seems simple type, but she isnt that much, she's often getting angry but thats ok. Hot body, not bad breast, nice bottom, nice lips. All in all I will say she is maybe a 7/10.

Anyway, in bedroom, this is a problem, she is maybe 2/10 and I am very much not happy. We married last year and I had big plans in honeymoon, booked himachal winter tour and was expecting amazing bedroom times.

But so far, only disappointment!!

Will describe issues:
- wont kiss in public, only hold hands
- is shy of tongue kissing even in bedroom
- is shy of masturbating
- is shy of lights being on
- doesnt like porn
- only sucks my cok sometimes
- only swallow sometimes
- wont allow cum shots on her body or face

And then, the sex part is not great also, i have great staminas and very large size so she should be happy, but she only complains of being tired and sore. I can go every night for 20 minutes forplay and 40 mins continous high quality sex, I can go one cock stroke per second when in motion, and I do such a great job to bring up 150-200 strokes in a session, record is 250 cock strokes in her pussy.

Such quality sex and she feels sore and tired and says it's too much.
I volunteer to lick her pussy, she doesnt like.
I want to fuck her ass, she doesn't like.
Both of these only come 1-2 times in month and that is SO BAD

I take her shopping, buy dresses, I'm nice and very romantic.
Sweet talks, all that good things.
Honeymoon, wow, winter and snow and mountains

She says she is happy and STILL sex is too average for me

What do I do !!
i don't know...maybe being less of a cocky egoistic c@#t and being a bit more understanding about her might help...!

i mean seriously...continuous "high quality" sex...??? bro the quality of sex is measured not by the number of strokes (that's usually done with engine pistons in automobiles) but the amount of pleasure both (yes...i know that's a new concept for u but 'her' pleasure too matters in this case)...u created a record...??? did u actually count your number of strokes in her pussy... ???

i'd suggest u see a good sexologist my friend because if anyone needs urgent counseling it's u...consider this as the best ever advise from a stranger and thank me later for saving ur married life...!
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i don't know...maybe being less of a cocky egoistic c@#t and being a bit more understanding about her might help...!

i mean seriously...continuous "high quality" sex...??? bro the quality of sex is measured not by the number of strokes (that's usually done with engine pistons in automobiles) but the amount of pleasure both (yes...i know that's a new concept for u but 'her' pleasure too matters in this case)...u created a record...??? did u actually count your number of strokes in her pussy... ???

i'd suggest u see a good sexologist my friend because if anyone needs urgent counseling it's u...consider this as the best ever advise from a stranger and thank me later for saving ur married life...!
sorry to have fun at your expense but i cant recover from this bro...seriously i can imagine u doing this *having sex and counting strokes* ...1...2....3...99...108...154...250....YEAH....this is a new record *striking a CR7 pose jumping off from bed*...!

P.S: don't take it personally...think of it as a lighthearted banter...maybe it would help u sober up a bit...

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Dude -

First apologies. But let us be realistic.

1. She is an Indian
2. She is not a bi@tch
3. If you could understand, You probably were her first one.
4. She probably is not addicted to porn or never watched porn (She would probably feel shy to watch romance from the bollywood movies).
5. She is orthodox / conservative.
6. She is not a pervert.
7. She has read/heard something bad of sEEx from her friends or other people.

Trust me -

YOU ARE NOT ALONE. THAT IS HOW MOST OF THE INDIAN WOMEN BEHAVE IN BED.

Move on. That is life. If I would expect all the things that you have listed from a normal Indian girl, then i will have to go to a whore.

No offence meant sir. But my view on sex is different from my wife's and i cant force that on my wife.

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Boss,she is not a pron star who comes in the videos and do stuff . If she is not ready for a full sex give her space and be there for her. just start with few romance and try different things till she liked, she going to be with your full life don't put this small thing to hinder your happiness and fun. If you force your sex stuff on her, then life long this small things going to be pain in the ASS for you so better wait for her and her perspective about sex. As said in the above your are not alone in this, every men have to go through this so don't complain, cheer up and have fun.
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sorry for this reply i married a girl 10yrs back parrents arranged she is a doctor she knows all but in bed she rules still now no BJ no HJ and no anal all girls didnt like sex much like guys so "if u want better sex try a animal that matchs you" this word coming from my beautiful wife

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sorry to have fun at your expense but i cant recover from this bro...seriously i can imagine u doing this *having sex and counting strokes* ...1...2....3...99...108...154...250....YEAH....this is a new record *striking a CR7 pose jumping off from bed*...!

P.S: don't take it personally...think of it as a lighthearted banter...maybe it would help u sober up a bit...

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I honestly can promise you it was NOT like that, at the suggestion of a friend I thought i"ll get a rough idea of my sexual technique that is all, stupid I know, but sex isn't like Sachin ticking away runs lol

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Dude -

First apologies. But let us be realistic.

1. She is an Indian
2. She is not a bi@tch
3. If you could understand, You probably were her first one.
4. She probably is not addicted to porn or never watched porn (She would probably feel shy to watch romance from the bollywood movies).
5. She is orthodox / conservative.
6. She is not a pervert.
7. She has read/heard something bad of sEEx from her friends or other people.

Trust me -

YOU ARE NOT ALONE. THAT IS HOW MOST OF THE INDIAN WOMEN BEHAVE IN BED.

Move on. That is life. If I would expect all the things that you have listed from a normal Indian girl, then i will have to go to a whore.

No offence meant sir. But my view on sex is different from my wife's and i cant force that on my wife.
Thanks brother for the words and you are correct, most Indian women behave in a very traditional and conservative manner and there is not much that can be done. Indian males think differently and that is just how it is and like you say THIS IS LIFE

But, I will not stop trying, no harm in trying right? I don't want her addicted to porn movies but I want her to watch it sometimes with me so we can try new things and take our sex to the next level, and so far, she seems at least willing so that is GREAT NEWS, hopefully things will work in my favor and also her favor, I want her to orgasm like crazy

Peace brother

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Boss,she is not a pron star who comes in the videos and do stuff . If she is not ready for a full sex give her space and be there for her. just start with few romance and try different things till she liked, she going to be with your full life don't put this small thing to hinder your happiness and fun. If you force your sex stuff on her, then life long this small things going to be pain in the ASS for you so better wait for her and her perspective about sex. As said in the above your are not alone in this, every men have to go through this so don't complain, cheer up and have fun.
You are right and I am trying to up the romance side of things with more fun together, movies together, trips and shopping and all that stuff and just build friendship and love and of course, hand in hand, hopefully some more lust

She is I think just a caged tigress and just needs the right key to open the door, it is my job to find it and then we shall explore some great times in the bedroom

That is my wish and hopefully it happens, if not, nothing wrong she is still a great lady and still MY lady and that is very important. Peace

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sorry for this reply i married a girl 10yrs back parrents arranged she is a doctor she knows all but in bed she rules still now no BJ no HJ and no anal all girls didnt like sex much like guys so "if u want better sex try a animal that matchs you" this word coming from my beautiful wife
Oh god that is not good dude,I hope things don't end up this way from me, I'm sorry to hear your plight brother, must be such a struggle. At least I hpoe she is a decent and loving woman and a good wife, at least that much can be there I hope.

So far I have had SOME luck, at least HJ has come into the play and we have begun experimenting with BJ and anal, not much success but it is not totally write off just yet so HERE IS HOPING.

Peace brother and wishing you a happy marriage and life

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sorry for this reply i married a girl 10yrs back parrents arranged she is a doctor she knows all but in bed she rules still now no BJ no HJ and no anal all girls didnt like sex much like guys so "if u want better sex try a animal that matchs you" this word coming from my beautiful wife
Does she visits xossip also or other Porn sites like you ,if not then you are a very Big Tharki who does not deserve this type of wife

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