[sexFreak007]

I am really worried about the possibility of me contracting HIV. Please tell me if I am at risk of getting hiv infection. Let me explain the incidents in sequential order.

I am male who at times looks outside marriage for sex but always I use condoms when I am not having it with my wife. 3 months back, I had sex with a female escort. I indulged in deep french kissing, heavy oral sex(69) and also some anal licking and proceeded to have penetrative sex with condoms. 2 days later after playing cricket(nearly after a gap of 6 months), i started feeling tired and later went home and found myself to be sick for the next 4 days. I went to a clinic later for master health check up a week later and nothing abnormal was found.

4 weeks after my encounter with the female escort, i met a transsexual escort and had penetrated her with condoms, but indulged in deep kissing and sucked the pines & balls of her without condoms. Though I did NOT suck the tip of her uncovered penis, I am not sure if there were any precum in her dick and balls when I sucked it. 5 days later, I felt tired while doing workouts and fell sick for a day.
-A week later, I saw some rash appearing on my chest and I suspected it to be syphilis. I lost my appetite as well as 8 pounds of my weight.
I got myself tested for STDs and the result turned to be negative.

-2 weeks later I got my blood tested for HIV and the result was negative. Still no improvement in appetite.

-4 weeks later I found some blotches on my gums and I started to panic. Also found some chicken pox like bumps on my palm and toes. Lost my appetite even more and lost 4 more pounds.ALL this time, I NEVER had any sore throat. I was feeling feverish all these days, but whenever i tested my temperature, it was below normal.

-6 weeks later, i did HIV rapid test and the result was negative.The lab technician told me that the latest kits in India detect HIV antibodies in 30 days time itself and since it was more than 6 weeks I was returning to normal mindset.

But after 7 weeks, i went to a theater and after howling and whistling for 10 minutes, i found that my throat has become sore and hurt. Also found 2 small bumps on my hand. Also caught up cold and running nose, but its raining now in India, so not sure if its ARS.

8 weeks later- my hiv test by triline method for antibodies is negatiive.

QUESTIONS:
What is my risk of getting HIV or any other diseases from incident 1(female escort - anal licking ) ?
What is my risk of getting HIV from incident 2(transsexual escort - deep kissing ) ?
Was I really at risk ? If so can I stop with my 8 week negative report or do I have to test for HIV again for the 12th /13 th week?

I have been avoiding having sex with my wife for the last 1& half months as I don't want to pass my infection to her.I am losing my sleep because of these incidents. I am also having the feeling that I am sick always.

Please provide your truthful suggestions.

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[ambush]

What is my risk of getting HIV or any other diseases from incident 1(female escort - anal licking ) ?

Chances of getting HIV from oral sex is low. There is low risk unless there was reasonable amount of semen involved and you have sores or lesions in your mouth. Your concern regarding HIV is exaggerated. You should be worried about Herpes the most (its incurable and can be easily transmitted to your wife and can cause serious health issues). More over there is severe risk of hepatitis(which is transmitted fecally), gonorrhea, syphilis etc.

What is my risk of getting HIV from incident 2(transsexual escort - deep kissing ) ?

Chances of HIV from Kissing are in the 1inbillion range. But doesn't hurt to test.

Was I really at risk ? If so can I stop with my 8 week negative report or do I have to test for HIV again for the 12th /13 th week?

None of the disease will show symptoms in short period. It will take time to show. Test for all STD. If you continue with this type of risky behavior you will surely catch something.

[kunwara42010]

dude from ur questions it looks like a case of anxiety rather than stds

do conduct the std tests but for once meet psychiatrist and tell him all the things

best of luck

[sexFreak007]

Originally Posted by ambush

What is my risk of getting HIV or any other diseases from incident 1(female escort - anal licking ) ?

Chances of getting HIV from oral sex is low. There is low risk unless there was reasonable amount of semen involved and you have sores or lesions in your mouth. Your concern regarding HIV is exaggerated. You should be worried about Herpes the most (its incurable and can be easily transmitted to your wife and can cause serious health issues). More over there is severe risk of hepatitis(which is transmitted fecally), gonorrhea, syphilis etc.

What is my risk of getting HIV from incident 2(transsexual escort - deep kissing ) ?

Chances of HIV from Kissing are in the 1inbillion range. But doesn't hurt to test.

Was I really at risk ? If so can I stop with my 8 week negative report or do I have to test for HIV again for the 12th /13 th week?

None of the disease will show symptoms in short period. It will take time to show. Test for all STD. If you continue with this type of risky behavior you will surely catch something.

Originally Posted by kunwara42010

dude from ur questions it looks like a case of anxiety rather than stds

do conduct the std tests but for once meet psychiatrist and tell him all the things

best of luck

Thanks frends

[soap-ass-lungi]

you are confusing the symptoms of AIDS with your case.but don't go to escorts if you have wife.let it be last

[vshs]

u r at risk .... what u did was reckless on ur side. anyways aids symptom dont generall show up so soon. it can lye dormant upton 12 years without u feeling anything...
in case 1 9 with escort)... condom will provide protect of lund. but doing 69 with escort is unimaginable. why do u want to please her after paying the money. vaginal fluids do contain highest concentration of HIV. if u have any nics and cuts in mouth they can enter ur body through that. u never know how many cuts u get even while brushing.....

ur second encounter with the Ts might give u gnorrohea or syphyllis.

i do suggest u to take another test after 3 months.
if u have access to those two people who u fucked then meet them up and try to find if they are healthy or not or do they look sick. because if they had aids then they would show the symptoms first ....

my 3d suggestion is to be calm and cool.... because nowdays there are lots of drugs which can fight aids better... a person's life expectancy is 30 years now with currect meds in market. so dont need to worry...

all i can say is u have acted very stupidly... if u want to fuck some one then go for some next door girl rather than whores....

if u need more info then pm me...

[sexFreak007]

Originally Posted by andheri_raat

You seems to be lucky you didn't contact AIDS from either incident but let me be frank with you, you are living a potentially risky life.

Thanks for ur reply buddy. I know i did something wrong and I will not repeat these.

[horny1234]

U are surely at risk. No, I am not talking about yr physical health. I am talking about yr emotional & psychological health & yr family. U r suffering from sex addiction. Get help from a psychiatric counselor.

[akshayk89]

hope u get fine soon take care plz..get a gf and dont indulge in too much escorts or prostitutes its risky nothing is 100 percent safe not even condoms or pills.