[tinkerman1]

Originally Posted by titanramones123

yes bro. infact i loved a girl a lot and did not try to take any sort of advantage from her. and in fact i never put any restriction on her. one night she went out with her few college friends. there she drank few vodkas and got up. while coming one of her male friend dropped her home but did not let her go without doing oral sex and foreplay with her whole night. next day she narrated whole thing to me and she was crying, i consoled her and was enraged at that guy. i got plan ready to have him eliminated but this girl stopped me. BUT from that day onwards she changed a lot. and after a week i came to know that she was seeing that guy and planning to get married with him. i felt myself burning in hell fire.

my revenge has not taken place yet it will take place after 20 years. mr tinker hope you will understand my point.

bro get the revenge out of your mind. i have been in ur situation twice. certain girls are like that only. its
there problem. u shud thank your stars she showed u her true colors now only and not after say, u wud have been married and found out tht the kid is not urs? tht wud hav hurt more. thats why, than ur stars and move ahead

[avroneel]

Originally Posted by chichorababa

I have been in a relationship with a girl for about a year. Just recently she told me that she had lost her virginity to some random boy in college. I was completely Ok when she said this, but now am feeling low. I don't know what to do... how to react on this...? Please advise what should I do..?

If that happened before your relationship started, then it ok. IF it took place later. Then also don't react. Enjoy with her. And trust me that college incident will not be alone on the cards, this will happen frequent times now. So, she will dump you someday, so relax and have fun as long you can and last. Pussies are very hard to find thee days.

[titanramones123]

Originally Posted by tinkerman1

bro get the revenge out of your mind. i have been in ur situation twice. certain girls are like that only. its
there problem. u shud thank your stars she showed u her true colors now only and not after say, u wud have been married and found out tht the kid is not urs? tht wud hav hurt more. thats why, than ur stars and move ahead

you are right bro. but when i think that incident i look like fool in my own eyes. i could have fucked her but i did not on basis of personal morality. so i cant reason with myself that why should not i hurt her at some point of time in life when she would be least expecting this. my anger rise more when i recall the words she told me before going away. she made me feel as if i was loving her because of my personal interest.

[titanramones123]

Originally Posted by avroneel

If that happened before your relationship started, then it ok. IF it took place later. Then also don't react. Enjoy with her. And trust me that college incident will not be alone on the cards, this will happen frequent times now. So, she will dump you someday, so relax and have fun as long you can and last. Pussies are very hard to find thee days.

ekdum sahi kaha yaar. jaha mile le lo. simple funda.

[tinkerman1]

read the count of monte cristo's last words and you will know why revenge is not the solution. although i feel for you bro i have gone through exactly the same feelings you are haivng now. i undergo those feelings even now but they are meant to be suppressed, not harbored.

[titanramones123]

Originally Posted by tinkerman1

read the count of monte cristo's last words and you will know why revenge is not the solution. although i feel for you bro i have gone through exactly the same feelings you are haivng now. i undergo those feelings even now but they are meant to be suppressed, not harbored.

i know yaar. revenge is not the good thing. in fact i never had such feeling for any human being ever as far as i remember, even though i was betrayed by those. but this case is special. anyway let see yaar what stars have for me in future. and in fact i go through the feelings which u spoke even now. when i think of them two having fun right now i get enraged at myself.

[Human 1024]

a school of law is conferring a degree on someone, while i am paanchvi paas, and my opinion is above that authority which confers the degree???

I already explained the difference between subjective and objective. I think you understand that difference, don't you? Do you want me to take the pain, type and explain you how a law-degree is an objective conferment while coward or courageous is a subjective opinion?

man is sexually charged and wife is on long tour

A man satisfied with marital sex would satiate himself by masturbating thinking about his absent wife..

[tinkerman1]

Originally Posted by Human 1024

I already explained the difference between subjective and objective. I think you understand that difference, don't you? Do you want me to take the pain, type and explain you how a law-degree is an objective conferment while coward or courageous is a subjective opinion?

instead of taking that pain, just substitute that with a subjective noun and end up with the same conclusion

Originally Posted by Human 1024

A man satisfied with marital sex would satiate himself by masturbating thinking about his absent wife..

he wants sex, not masturbation, thats why he went to the prostitute. that doesnt mean he is not satiated by marital sex. broaden your mindset - which you preach so vehemently

[lucky_chouhan]

dunp her, she repeat again,,,,

[Human 1024]

broaden your mindset - which you preach so vehemently

I appreciated the fact that you engaged in a healthy discussion even if our subjective opinions differed. Alas, now you've resorted to getting personal....