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bro...your problem is that you think too highly of yourself...just think that you are also an average and learn with her...she doesnt want to be judged for her sexual capabilities...just be normal to her and be very understanding...practice these magic words "its fine...i understand ...you dont have to do anything you dont want to do"
try to talk to her about what she likes...not just in sex...in everything...many people think that sex just begins and ends in the bedroom..this is wrong....great sex is a whole day process...great sex involves all those small small turn ons...those emotional turn ons when your spouse listens to you...its not about buying gifts...you cant expect her to be happy with you cause you take heron expensive holidays and buy her expensive gifts...she is not a prostitute to be happy for the money you spent on her...she is your wife...great sex is about those understanding...great sex comes from thos doors you held for her...comes from those times you lifted her off her feet...those times you held her heels for her...those time you gave her your jacket...these matter more...and after these...you can move onto catching her ass randomly and all those things...this is where great sex comes from...turn ons are not just in the bed...it happens round the clock...those naughty jokes...and everything...i hope you understand...and you have to be real patient with a virgin,man...i personally hate virgins cause of this...but actually you have to be real patient with them...and work on yourself...the truth is women only care about your penis size once you let down your pants...and till then they care aabout your upper body and ass actually...you can have the biggest cock in the world but if you have an ugly stomach on top...then trust me no woman will be turned on by you...even we guys dont like women with huge boobs and also huge stomachs...right?
so instead of finding out what she is doing wrong...figure out what you are doing wrong ...and just work on them....then slowly you will see your sex getting great...am sorry if i overstepped with my reply...and i apologise if am wrong...have a nice day
Hi thank u for reply, maybe you are right maybe I am going overboard but there is nothign wrong in setting the bar HIGH so that maybe at least I can get 80% of the way there yes? So far that strategy is working for me and she is improving her game so I am happy now.

She loves the gifts and holidays but you sir are right and I should also do small pampering. I am working on that, to make her feel happy throughout the day also, yes winter is coming so I will have chances to give her my jacket hehehe, will make use of that !! My stomach and her stomach is also trim so nothing wrong there, i'm quite fit, not super fit but definitely slim and healthy and not bad looking so I think I'm ok.

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I think she is perfectly right in what she is doing. Even I wont do what this guy is expecting.
So you don't believe in blowjobs and long fun sessions in bed?
I give her oral sex and massages too so it is NOT a one way street it is purely mutual and fun times that I want. What you do is your choice, no issues there, thank you for your reply and opinion. Peace.

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To the average responder of this thread it seems like you're writing to brag.

Interesting how you have quantified her into a physical 7/10. What is your score?

Sexually you say she's a 2/10. And you seem to think that you are around 9/10?

Won't kiss in public - most people won't - men or women - unless they have a VERY strong relationship. You aren't there yet.

Tongue Kissing This a very intimate form of expression. You seem to think that since she is married to you it should happen automatically. Have you checked your dental hygiene?

Lights on/ Masturbation This requires time and trust. Not something you can expect right away, from an inexperienced girl thrown into marriage.

You think a big dick and long lasting ability is very fulfilling It isn't the size of the dick that cause arousal. Women don't get aroused so much by looking at men - unlike men whose arousal is almost purely visual.
Women's arousal begins before you take off your clothes. How you behave, how you look after them, how you smell.
Once sex begins that arousal remains only as long as your good behavior remains. The moment you turn into a self satisfying "dick-head" that arousal goes out of the window - 150 or 250 stokes won't matter!!

Clothes or gifts or Mountains or snow. These things work if there already is some good will (sexual goodwill) existing - if not - you'll be fucking a dry hole.

So, take a long hard look at yourself. Make a change in your approach. Mean it. Pretending will not help. Best of luck
Hello friend, looks while she is a 7/10 yes and getting prettier over the months so moving up to 8/10 category now. Me? Well if I was to rate my HONESTLY I would say also high 7 out of 10 or somewhere around 8, not super great but very good and definitely a catch in all major categories. Sexually she is probably I would say now approaching a 4/5 out of 10 and coming towards a pass mark, but definitely we are making great ground and soon she will be going higher up the ladder I am confident of it.

I will not know my score in bed but I am definitely on the higher end in capability and in imagination and ideas, definitely I would say minimum 7 and obviously needing some work to get her cumming all the time and having as much fun as me, so I also have work to do to bring us both to good levels.

Kissing in public - yes i know it is hard but hopefully in our travels this winter we might have a quiet kiss somewhere private !!
Tongue kissing - breath and all that is fine, she is just shy, but luckily we are making progress!! so good news there!!
Lights / masturbate - lights coming on are becoming an improvment but still needs work, masturbating she is shy but again, let us see
big dick and long lasting - she has herself complimented by size and stamina but I agree that I can also add more spice to it before we get into bed, she says she always feels full and satisfied so I think I am ok in this department
Clothes / snow - u are right there was not very much good will first time as we were new to each other, but now she is more open and i see the happy smile when i gift her nice things and also i am sure she will be very happy when i surprise her with another trip north later this year!

thank uu for your post and valuable advice, peace !

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After reading all your blah blah about how good you are in the sack, i am actually interested in what rating your wife gives you. I won't be surprised if her rating isn't flattering for you.

But then she is a nice girl who puts up with husbands tantrums! I am sure she keeps it to herself

All the best mate!

I will ask her and let you know, but I am sure she will rate me high after I keep working hard to imporove!

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Actually you have been destroyed by watching too much porn. You married a 'normal' girl and you have expectations of a whore.

Actually sex is not about how many strokes per second .. neither how long or how short .. its a lot more .. lot much more ..
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Will describe issues:
- wont kiss in public, only hold hands
- is shy of tongue kissing even in bedroom
- is shy of masturbating
- is shy of lights being on
- doesnt like porn
- only sucks my cok sometimes
- only swallow sometimes
- wont allow cum shots on her body or face
That too is extreme for her

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250 strokes? I wonder u enjoy ur fuck sessions or are busy counting ur manliness.. Anyway, talk to her when she is in good mood, tell her and ask the reasons why is she so shy..
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Indian wife hai ...American PORNSTAR NAHI..

U want more find a girlfriend on the side (if u hv the financial resources and the time) and experiment with her....but mind u there will be consequences if ur wife finds out....or go to the whorehouse with thick double condoms on ur dick...and fuck the whores in as many holes as possible....

250 strokes huh? LOL...Give all these 250 strokes huge dick cock and bull stories to ur friends in the office....Not to Xosippians...Jis school mein tho padh raha hai...we are the headmasters of that school ....Samjhe!!!!

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