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Help!! How to know if my wife is Cheating

Hi Friends,

I am a new member in this forum. I have been browsing this forum for many years but didnt find the need to create an account. Now I need help and suggestion from members here as I dont know who I could ask these doubts.

Now coming to my problem, I am 31 years old and my wife is 29 (She is very good looking and sexy too). We have been married for 5 years. We are having a happy life till a few months ago. Now my main problem is I think my wife is cheating on me. Please dont think that I am a suspecting husband always keeping eye on wife. I love her a lot and will love her no matter what but with this doubt in mind I cannot do anything. It keeps pestering me. We always have a god sex life too. Nothing super human or kinky stuff like in porn but a perfectly normal sex life where both me and my wife attain orgasm. We dont even have any emotional problems between us and I dont know what is the reason for her to cheat me. Let me tell the reasons why I think she is having sex with someone else.

1) For the past few months she has been avoiding having sex with me. This has never happened in 5 years of our marriage and I even spoke to her about it but she says everything is OK. She doesnt have any health problems it just looks like she has no interest in sex with me.

2) She has started to talk about sex with others like a fantasy in rare occasion that we have sex ( Nowadays only 2-3 times a month). I know its not just a fantasy because we have been browsing Xossip from the time we got married( When site was Exbii) She hated threesome or cheating thread and videos. Trust me I know she had zero interest in that but now she talks sex with others when I fuck her. Later she says just a fantasy.

3) Two of my neighbours said about a guy who visits my home almost daily. I am not a kind of guy who trust what neighbours say and I think spying on wife is a disgusting thing but I cant just ignore what others say right? That too neighbours are old couple and not gossip type and they didnt even complain they just asked if any of my relative lives with us because a guys comes home everyday.

4) After all these things I count not control my suspicion and checked security entry logs to my home in appartment office. To my complete shock almost everyday there has been an entry to my house and exit is only after 3 hours. But there is no entry in weekends only. And to even increase my heartbreak there have been three different guys who have been visiting my house regularly. I cant even imagine my wife like that but I cant deny this proof also.

5) And lastly, once I found a used condom in the sun-shade near our terrace. As it is an appartment it can be someone else also. But with all other things I dont know what to think.

I need suggestion from you guys help me with the way forward. Is my suspicion true or is there some other explaination. I still love my wife and want it all to be false but I dont know. Help me people. Sorry for this long post but I have nowhere else to go with this problem.

P.S: I have been using this site and have had wife swap fantasy and everything. But thinking it is happening really is something else and believe me its not at all a good feeling.

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I am not an expert in giving advice but seeing the things you have told its quite obvious that your wife is having an affair. Best idea is to just ask her instead of keep on thinking about it. If she accepts then its up to you two to decide what to do next.
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And one more thing, a person cannot talk having multiple affairs suddenly. Either your doubt is wrong now or she was having affair all along and you were not aware. Anyway lets hope you are wrong.
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Hi Friends,

I am a new member in this forum. I have been browsing this forum for many years but didnt find the need to create an account. Now I need help and suggestion from members here as I dont know who I could ask these doubts.

Now coming to my problem, I am 31 years old and my wife is 29 (She is very good looking and sexy too). We have been married for 5 years. We are having a happy life till a few months ago. Now my main problem is I think my wife is cheating on me. Please dont think that I am a suspecting husband always keeping eye on wife. I love her a lot and will love her no matter what but with this doubt in mind I cannot do anything. It keeps pestering me. We always have a god sex life too. Nothing super human or kinky stuff like in porn but a perfectly normal sex life where both me and my wife attain orgasm. We dont even have any emotional problems between us and I dont know what is the reason for her to cheat me. Let me tell the reasons why I think she is having sex with someone else.

1) For the past few months she has been avoiding having sex with me. This has never happened in 5 years of our marriage and I even spoke to her about it but she says everything is OK. She doesnt have any health problems it just looks like she has no interest in sex with me.

2) She has started to talk about sex with others like a fantasy in rare occasion that we have sex ( Nowadays only 2-3 times a month). I know its not just a fantasy because we have been browsing Xossip from the time we got married( When site was Exbii) She hated threesome or cheating thread and videos. Trust me I know she had zero interest in that but now she talks sex with others when I fuck her. Later she says just a fantasy.

3) Two of my neighbours said about a guy who visits my home almost daily. I am not a kind of guy who trust what neighbours say and I think spying on wife is a disgusting thing but I cant just ignore what others say right? That too neighbours are old couple and not gossip type and they didnt even complain they just asked if any of my relative lives with us because a guys comes home everyday.

4) After all these things I count not control my suspicion and checked security entry logs to my home in appartment office. To my complete shock almost everyday there has been an entry to my house and exit is only after 3 hours. But there is no entry in weekends only. And to even increase my heartbreak there have been three different guys who have been visiting my house regularly. I cant even imagine my wife like that but I cant deny this proof also.

5) And lastly, once I found a used condom in the sun-shade near our terrace. As it is an appartment it can be someone else also. But with all other things I dont know what to think.

I need suggestion from you guys help me with the way forward. Is my suspicion true or is there some other explaination. I still love my wife and want it all to be false but I dont know. Help me people. Sorry for this long post but I have nowhere else to go with this problem.

P.S: I have been using this site and have had wife swap fantasy and everything. But thinking it is happening really is something else and believe me its not at all a good feeling.
After marriage you visited xossip (sex site) with your wife that is the most wrong thing you ever done .Now,you have to pay for this .Fantasies sometimes become reality and this is what you are dealing with .Talk to her directly without violence and if she like to go with other guy ,leave her and move on in your life .

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After marriage you visited xossip (sex site) with your wife that is the most wrong thing you ever done .Now,you have to pay for this .Fantasies sometimes become reality and this is what you are dealing with .Talk to her directly without violence and if she like to go with other guy ,leave her and move on in your life .
Don't know about that. I have been visiting such sites for a long time but cheating my wife has never crossed my mind. If just fantasy stories could lead her to cheat then I think it was just a matter of time before it happened. I am hoping against hope that all of this is false and just my wrong feeling. The only thing stopping me from confronting my wife is what if this is not true and I hurt her. That's my only hesitation.

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I am not an expert in giving advice but seeing the things you have told its quite obvious that your wife is having an affair. Best idea is to just ask her instead of keep on thinking about it. If she accepts then its up to you two to decide what to do next.
I only posted here so I could get a third man view on things and whether my thought will be wrong. What do you think from the things. Is there any possibility that I might be wrong. If not no other way than to ask.her directly.

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And one more thing, a person cannot talk having multiple affairs suddenly. Either your doubt is wrong now or she was having affair all along and you were not aware. Anyway lets hope you are wrong.
Can't even think like that. I can't imagine if that is true I will be dead inside. Living for 5 years like that. I must have been the dumbest person

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Signs are that of an affair. Or maybe someone abused her and is blackmailing her of video release as it happens. You need to stop all work and find out clearly.
One way is to pretend you are going for work and stay hidden nearby and check who the fucxk is entering your flat. Also have a hidden cam and be friendly to your security guard. Collect evidences if possible and then confront your wife

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Can't even think like that. I can't imagine if that is true I will be dead inside. Living for 5 years like that. I must have been the dumbest person

Proper age of doing Marriage is 21 years for boys and 18 years for girls ,Nature works like that and it has prepared you for that but now people do marriages very late .so,it is very common to have an affair before marriage (Many still don't but possibility can't be ruled out ) like in colleges ,coaching centers etc. just talk to her directly .

Also,when you think about fantasies it is in your mind and mind is everything .if your mind is out of control ,you can't do that .Reading ,thinking about sex material leads to real life problems better to stop it and tlk directly to her

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Signs are that of an affair. Or maybe someone abused her and is blackmailing her of video release as it happens. You need to stop all work and find out clearly.
One way is to pretend you are going for work and stay hidden nearby and check who the fucxk is entering your flat. Also have a hidden cam and be friendly to your security guard. Collect evidences if possible and then confront your wife
Thanks bro for the advice. As its multi storied appartnent hiding and watching is difficult. Maybe I need to setup a cam. But just the thought of what I might find in that is making me sick.

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